Why an emotional connection?

Why an Emotional Connection?

An emotional basis is very important for any kind of relationship.
I guess you are very familiar with those types of conversations where you had a blast with someone else and you exchange numbers.
Maybe you even call the other person some hours later.
Silence.
Nothing.

And you ask yourself why?

You might have had a loads of fun together that's true, but:
Who is the other person? Do you know her really better now?

An emotional connection is the foundation for a longterm relation.

• Trust
• to get to know someone
• Depth
• Deep Connection

Mostly you might tell a little bit about yourself or will hear a little bit about yourself by the other person. Or it's the other way round. Very unsharp, right? What you get out of that?
That's the same level of sharpness the experience of the togetherness is. Bare to none. Very unsharp.
It's important to dissolve this unsharp experience and to bring it to another level.

Many books, seminars and courses state the same: What you say is not important, more important is:

HOW you say it.

I will clearly add: It's ALSO important WHAT'S said.
This will become very clear hier.

Emotions can trigger thoughts, thoughts can trigger emotions.
It's about experiencing each others reality. And penetrate it. And not only staying and relating everything to your own reality.
It's not an emotional one way street, no dead end.
It's a togetherness.

I'll show you how you can create an honest deep relation to another human being.
And also the pitfalls that might prevent this.
Many people don't learn anymore about how to make the important step to create effort to move away from superficial conversation to a profound conversation.

To find the right way to start this is not even that difficult. But how to bring it deeper from there?

The Inner Frame

If the place you're coming from is not the right one you will create a certain level of impact that can be quite strong. But you're still away from the full potential of impact this skill can create if you really master it. So it's important to have the right mind set about that.

It's not about forcing the other people involved in the conversation.
It's not about spilling them over like domino stones to convince them.
It's about sharing what you offer.
This will only work from the right place and the correct inner frame.

Now you might put the question:

Can I get there?

Sure. No doubt at all. And I will help you and lead you to get there.
I will show you the differences to the better and how get there and accompany you from the very first step.

Empathy

To show you the topic empathy from another angle you need to have mastered the first steps already:

To be able to build an emotional connection
Coming from the right place by already having absorbed the right mindset.

Understanding and Recognizing

Why is this whole topic not so easy and where are the challenges you will have to master?


Many things related to communication are very subtle. Even when we just relate to words here.
To show this to be able to recognize those subtleties you need a trained eye and ear and practice.
If we don't know what we're looking for we can not recognize it.

Improving Quality of Life

You will see that a deep emotional connection will improve your life quality a lot.Warum?
Why? Because longterm relations need a certain level of trust.

If you have ever shared this feeling with another human being you will never miss out on it again.